You need not to be born rich. Not every individual is born with a silver spoon in his mouth. Anybody can be rich. You can become rich or wealthy only if you want it and hope for it to happen. You have to fight for it. Victory comes hard. The key to win is inside a person. Its your integrity, people ability's, character, belief in yourself that takes you to unimaginable heights .
I see a successful person
Standing proud and tall
Shouldering responsibilities of many
Making all kith and kin proud.
The reason for a smile for the whole lineage
Bringing all my dreams to life.
All bruises and scars yielding much.
Honors and credit showering upon
It may not have been possible
If I'd turned my back
All my pain is now paid back
All mocking has renewed to laurels
I am successful by my own deeds.
-Adeline Barbara Dvaz
To attain all that's said, you need to follow a few steps. And I'll assure you with a constant check on these not only does your aim to success near but you would also find your attitude to be far more superior that you had been in the past.
1. Take ownership
When I say of taking ownership we always tend to see it in a narrow perspective, of taking up my own job, my own tasks and trying to put away others from getting into our business. But I am trying to tell you a far more important part to own. I am talking about our mistakes, problems , solutions , job, team, future and life. You are exactly right. I have heard what your mind said right now. You are fooled by your mind to believe that you have already been doing it and its a bitter truth that in many a times we really do not accept the errs from our side .We tend to blame somebody, or the situation or the time in our life. But don't feel bad, we are all humans and we all tend to make mistakes and contemplate them.
2. Fall back
Yes, I meant fall back and don't worry you can grow back. I can assure you that a person with a strong will power falling back is just like a power start for a better hike. Psychology states that a human develops in a spiral manner rather than in linear manner. So when you fall takes up the courage to stand up and walk and you can see you are moving up faster and firmer in the process of winning.
3.Be optimistic
Its very easy to think little of ourselves, for we see ourselves in others and not in ourselves. No one is our reflection so stop looking into them for yourself. Be positive and gain your own strength to soar high like an eagle.
4. Mold yourself
No-one is perfect. Practice makes you better. So remember every perfect person had to get through his flaws to become who he is today. Nobody is born perfect either. On close supervision even a perfectionist would have flaws but with a difference he would justify them perfectly.
DON'T TRADE WHO YOU ARE FOR THE WORLD. DON'T DECIDE OF HOW THE WORLD NEEDS YOU. YOU STAY AS YOU ARE AND GAIN YOUR VICTORY.
5. Remember, Not all are meant to win
You should always remember not everybody is meant to win. Its a war of the toughest to withstand and achieve and the feeble will lose their path midway. If you keep looking at others falling back you will never be able to pull yourself up and regain the place on your ladder. So its for you to choose the path, if its victory you choose look ahead and believe in yourself but if you would want to celebrate your self pity then you'll gradually forget your strength and fall back.
TO BE CONTINUED......
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